I wasn’t worried about the bump on my head, not one bit. All I cared about was how strong of a heartbeat I would hear from the monitor before me. Such a simple confirmation turned my worries into smiles, and I became frantic with excitement. The weeks were winding down and my prenatal appointments were scheduled weekly. While I planned to be ready by this point of pregnancy, my doubts settled in and stuck around for the show. I had so many tasks at hand that required my full attention, but the want to sit down and prepare for her arrival was fully out of reach. I spent hours lying in bed wondering what my life would’ve been like had I not been pregnant… which lead to the guilt and frustration that wrapped around me like a cord.
That what if was always brewing in the back of my mind. I challenged my own competence and worried that my daughter would be placed in the wrong hands. My anxieties often led me to a place that took days to dodge from. During a moment of weakness, I wished that she would just stop kicking so that I could sleep without interruption. I was mentally exhausted from adjusting my pillow all night, just to get up and go to the bathroom again. I had nightmares about what my birthing experience would be like… usually ending with the worst possible outcomes. My Braxton Hicks often played mind games with me – it was time, and then it wasn’t. The emotions I battled were setting me up for a failure with clear motives. I was in for a ride… it was called motherhood.
A Wednesday morning, I (literally) rolled out of bed to begin my usual routine. My boyfriend left for work and I was left to continue the arrangements in welcoming our daughter. My bladder was speaking obscenities and begged to be noticed… for the fifth time that morning. When I looked down and saw blood, I was sent into a full panic. My due date was only a couple days away so it was only a matter of time before the waiting was over. I was advised to check into Labor & Delivery at our local hospital. Calls were made and texts were sent out – it was possibly time to birth my baby.
My boyfriend swerved in and around traffic with no time to waste. Upon arrival, I was frightened. Becoming a mother was now in clear view, but I wasn’t convinced that I was fit for the job. I kept a smile on my face for the visitors of the hospital. With one look at my belly, questions were thrown around in an elevator full of families. “Is it time?” … I wanted it to be, but then fear struck a nerve and I was back to wishing I were home instead. When describing my symptoms, the nurses thought it was best to call a doctor and perform an exam. This was always the part I dreaded when arriving to all of my appointments, but I knew it had to be done. I was barely three centimeters dilated, no contractions… you could tell it was my first time at the rodeo. My doctor advised me that he would most likely see my face within 24 hours. “By this time tomorrow, you should be checked in and waiting for your daughter to be born.” That was all I had… 24 hours to get ready, whether I felt ready or not.
I stripped the hospital gown from my over sized body and felt a sense of relief. Just a little more time, that’s all I needed. But as I struggled to put on my clothes, I felt a huge wave of pain. All I wanted to do was go home and snuggle in bed, so I told myself it was probably normal being that I just had an exam. Every few steps I took lead to a forceful demand to take a break. I squeezed my boyfriends hand and sat on the nearest bench. I wasn’t even sure if I was experiencing contractions, but they were increasingly painful… not like what I felt from the Braxton Hicks. While he went to find the car, I felt it was best to stay where I was and ride out the pain. I hadn’t even left the hospital parking lot before feeling like I shouldn’t have checked out of my room just yet. These last few weeks have been overrun by waiting. I wasn’t sure I could wait another hour more…
My boyfriend dropped me off at home. “False alarm!” He was asked to return back to work, and I assured that with anymore pain I’d give him a call. With each contraction, I felt my daughter moving around… only making the pain of them even worse. I needed one thing from those who scattered around me – silence. I tried to focus on one particular tile on the kitchen floor, while I held my breath through the long seconds. As much as I wanted to make my big return to the hospital, I knew I had to wait it out… more waiting until the contractions grew closer together.
In the midst of conversation… “hold on, I’m having a contraction sooner than expected.” I clenched my face with my sweaty palm in search of a release.
Start the timer… another one is coming.
In 3…
2…
and 1.
You have been writing a compelling series…can’t wait to hear the finale!
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Thank you! Feels so good coming to a close on my daughters pregnancy… then on to the next π
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Your posts have me gripped everytime I read them! I can’t wait to read the finale
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Thank you! So much more to come.
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Brilliant post I was truly gripped while reading it
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This is absolutely incredibly written. Your style is like that of a novelist. There is a sense of urgency yet in a calm way. You should keep writing, you certainly got a flair. Also I’m not a mom yet and I often wonder, will I know what to do, will I understand the how’s, will I be good at it and will I ever be ready! I guess these are normal feelings every parent feel and your blog is a great reflection π
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Thank you so much! I am definitely going to keep writing.. hopefully Iβll make something out of it one day! And youβre right, it is a very normal feeling. But once you become a mom itβs like everything just clicks and you become a natural!
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This is such a connecting story…the feeling has been so beautifully expressed out of words
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Thank you for the kind words!
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Oh my goodness.. when is the best post ready to go live? You’re writing style really drags me in & I love it.
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Hopefully I can get it done sooner! But if not, less than a week away! Thank you so much.
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Im very excited x
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Iβm excited to read the next post! You write so well x
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Thank you!
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This is so very well written! I’m looking forward to seeing how it comes together!
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Thank you! So much more ahead!
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beautifully written. Such an exciting time in one’s life!
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Thank you!
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I love your writing; it’s beautiful! What a wonderful way to capture those special memories of birth!
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Thank you! A memory Iβll cherish forever!
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I’m so excited to read the finale! I’m in love with your blog posts (literally!) x
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Aww thank you! Canβt wait to start telling my sons birth story!
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You have such a wonderful ability to write and your descriptions are so vivid, I can actually imagine all this happening right in front of me. Can’t wait to read the rest of the series! π
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Wow, thank you! That means a lot. Feels good to know Iβm doing my job!
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you should be a novelist… your writing is so suspenseful!
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Thank you!!
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Very well-written! Hope your daughter will come soon! π
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Thank you! It all happened so fast!
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wow, you are truly a very good writer! your words are super enticing and you just manage to keep me hooked on to every word!
Wish you the best for you and your baby girl!
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Thanks a bunch!! I truly appreciate that.
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You are so talented! Love reading your posts!
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Thank you, Shannan!
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I remember this day- the final moments before your little one is born. So scary and exciting!
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Super nerve wracking but also very exciting!
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You are an amazing writer! I’m going to have to go back and read other posts of yours!
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Thank you!! Itβs all a story that continues within another post π
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Love your story thus far! You definitely create a vivid image for your audience π
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Thank you! So glad youβre enjoying it.
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I love your writing xx
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Thank you!
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so much anticipation for the babies arrival! It’s so weird how it all comes naturally.
-Ashley
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It truly does! Everything just clicks and itβs like Iβve been a mom for years.
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Ahhh! The suspense! I can’t wait to read more!
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Aww, thanks!
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Wow, beautiful! I wish I had the talent you have, I could’ve written about my daughter’s birth. It’ll be so cool for your baby to look back and see what mama wrote!
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Thank you!! I live like it happened just yesterday… even though sheβll be two next month!
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This is absolutely incredibly written. Your style is like that of a novelist. I hope you will consider publishing a book π
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Thank you! Definitely one of my goals!
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This is so good! I want to read more!
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Thank you! Coming soon!
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Early labor, especially in your first pregnancy, is such an experience!
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I agree, a very wonderful experience!
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wow! What a brilliant read! I can’t wait to see what happens next!
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Thank you so much! Soon!
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I remember so well that panicky, excited feeling! I’m so ready to meet this baby but….what if I’m not ready and what if don’t know how to do this motherhood thing! Enjoyed your story so much, but what a cliffhanger!
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Exactly what I went through! Lol, hopefully it makes you come back for more π
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Ah, awaiting the arrival of your first baby. Such an exciting and anxiety filled time. Now I want to know what happens next.
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It happened super fast! Sheβs now a big sister π
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Amazing! I love the way you write, you should write a novel! π
xoxo, Pilar
http://thelifestylehunter.com
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Thank you for the kind words!!
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You captured the anxiety and the anticipation so well. Very nicely expressed!
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Thank you so much!
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This is beautifully and well written. You have such a talent! I’m totally engrossed and drawn into your story and can’t wait for more. You’ve got this!
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Thank you for the sweet comment! Lots more to come!
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Such a good read! Thank you for sharing this series. You definitely know how to bring the suspense:)
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Thank you!! So glad you enjoyed it.
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eeek! what a cliff hanger! can’t wait to read more!!
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Thank you!! Much more in store for my readers!
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This is so beautifully written, what a wonderful time in your life.
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Thank you, Ashley!
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Very great blog post! your feeling has been so beautifully expressed.
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Thanks a bunch!
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I can’t wait for the finale! You’re easily one of my favourite writers, you are incredible!
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Thank you!! That is a huge deal to me!
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I truly enjoyed this so thanks for sharing. As a writer, you have a great voice.
Kimberly Love
Author of Upcoming book, You Taste Like Whiskey and Sunshine,
http://www.kimmilove.com, http://www.instagram.com/kimmiloveauthor, http://www.facebook.com/kimmilovetheauthor, http://www.twitter.com/kimmiloveauthor
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Thank you kindly!
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Love the way you are telling this story! Excited for you !
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Thank you!
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Your posts read like a novel you don’t want to end. Nicely done.
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Thanks so much!
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Ahhh I want to know what happens next! Loving how you’re setting us up for the story each post!
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Thank you!! Always leaving you guys hanging, I know lol. But more coming soon!
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You have been writing such a good series. I really hope you get this made into a book. I am always either on the edge of my seat or like I have to wait til next week.
Angela
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Thank you, Angela! You are so kind. This comment has truly inspired me to keep going!!
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You have a way with words- can’t wait to read the next
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Thank you so much!
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This is so beautifully written!
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Thank you so much!
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I’ve been some of your post and I love how open you are! I’m not ready to have a kid yet but your journey to child birth has definitely given me some insight. Thank you!
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Thanks so much! I hope you have a wonderful experience when you are ready.
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